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Why not go to the source? That's right - if you want to find
out what women think is the ultimate date or the ultimate lover, you
need to hear from women!
If you want to know what women think is sexy, secretly buy a
stack of romance novels. Keep 'em hidden - you wouldn't want your
friends to think that this is your preferred reading - and go through
them. There are a lot of romance novels that have several sex
encounters in them, and the first thing you might notice is that women
don't use words like dick, cock, pussy, cunt or any sexually graphic
words in the passages in these novels. But there's a lot more to it
than that - women have an entirely different perspec- tive on sex than
men do, and this is where you can see their secret fantasies.
Did you know that romance novels are the top-selling genre of
books? A LOT of women read them, and there are several basic types.
Some have no sex, and very little contact. These are worth reading if
you want to know what characteristics women find attractive in men.
Beware of the pirate novels - no modern woman is going to let you
kidnap her without calling in the police! Use your head - a few things
may be very popular fantasies for most women, but they wouldn't want
to experience them in real life.
Now consider this: where do women go to get advice on life, love
and sex from other women? That's right - magazines! There are a lot of
magazines like Cosmo and Glamour, all packed with advice on men and
articles about how women can get what they want from their dates,
their boyfriends and their husbands. But you'll also find an
underlying thread and a lot of advice columns from women for women.
These magazines are an incredible wealth of information. Sure,
some of it is less informative than other parts. But keep in mind that
the successful women's mags have been around for many years because
whatever they say keeps women reading - women find something in them
that keeps them buying. So skimming through these magazines to look
for topics that might answer questions you've had is a great idea.
Inside women's magazines, you will find articles on what is
missing in their relationships, what they want in a first day, when
they feel that the first kiss should happen, how they like to be
approached the first time, how many dates before first sex... In fact,
if you skim a number of these magazines for a couple of months, you
will find out what women are really looking for - and what they feel
they don't get enough of.
After you've looked through a variety
of romance novels for the sex parts, and read the mags you may have a
whole new perspective on how to approach and woo the female of the
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